Sometimes, when I am alone, I ask myself a question: Why am I so public and open about living with HIV?
A definition does not allow room for growth. Life with HIV is not definitive; it is change. It is growth.
I know the world feels like it's falling apart. Most of it is. But just make time to do the things that bring you joy. Don't wait until later.
Have you ever held so much in? Have you ever felt lonely? That was me a few years ago, but the little voice said "you can do it".
I live in terror every day because my community, the transgender community, is being demonized and attacked by the government meant to protect us and the Christian community meant to love us.
Your experiences, your love, your strength — all of it matters. Even in hardship, there is light.
I want to tell you about my best friend, my baby, and the love of my life...
I have worn many hats over the years but my favorite, my passion, is advocate.
Today I celebrate 37 years of survival… and my health is the best it has EVER been.
I regret some decisions and some situations I found myself in, not because I was "bad," but because I was naive, vulnerable, and lacking affection.