pregnancy, HIV+ mothers, family

To parents: learn to understand your child at an early age and support their dreams, not your expectations.

I wrote a poem for my mother's service, which I called "A Mother's Love." On the tenth anniversary of her death, I wrote a Eulogy for a class project, and I have included both pieces as a tribute to my mother's life.

I'm coming up on my fourth year of being diagnosed with HIV. Although I have been undetectable since 2021, I am still learning to navigate through so much with this diagnosis.

The day started out like any other day. My daughter, Deondra Mae, was in the hospital again with pneumonia.

HIV cure work is something that is beginning to fascinate me. Having the opportunity to be in spaces where this is the topic of discussion, I have learned so much about the virus.

Sharing my stories and giving courage to others like me who can relate to some of my struggles and victories is a way I can give back to a community that has literally saved my life.

Being stigmatized with the closest friends and relatives... the people you really loved and trusted. It was really hard on me... But now I stand up straight to tell the world that I'm strong... Stigma can't kill my future.

It all seemed like talk – until it happened... Words could never do this journey justice. But I will try.

I don't see myself, I'm trying to rediscover myself. I want to feel like myself again.

Unfortunately, many countries still maintain entry restrictions for people living with HIV, whether for studies or work.