Dear Diva If you have a partner who takes care of you when you get ill, even if it's just by bringing you breakfast in bed, calling during his busy day to check how you are doing, getting you out of bed to get fresh air, running a bubble bath for you...anything he can do to make sure you are up on your feet in no time, then you know how good it feels to have someone take care of you because they love you, not because they have to. When I'm not well i need a few things to make me comfortable. things no doctor can give me. I need to be read to. As many books as it takes, just read to me, that's all. And when he does that, even if it's over the phone from work, i get the strength to wanna get up and do something nice for him too. Appreciate him, in every possible way.
Iam married,and I must admit that hubby does some if not all of these lovely things.consider yrself lucky
Ladies am jealous, because mine he does the total opposite, I am so lonely....but then again what doesn't kill me should make me stronger....... you don't happen to know a single man, he must be HIV +, as I am not prepared to risk someone's life, being HIV+ can be such a challenge i wouldn't wish it on my number 1 enemy...
Fifi that's why you have us, where are you based?