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Losing My Dream Job Led Me to My Purpose

Submitted on Aug 7, 2025 by  boseolotu

It all started sometime between May and June of last year — a season that felt full of promise.

I had the opportunity to apply for a position I was deeply passionate about: an HIV Peer Navigator with Eskenazi Hospital in Indianapolis, under the Marion County Public Health Department. It was more than a job to me. It was a calling — a way to serve my community, uplift others, and speak from a place of lived experience.

After the interview, I was offered the position. My start date was set for October 15, 2024. I completed the required medical tests, got my photo taken for my badge, and was nearly ready to begin.

I began to see just how much strength, resilience, and purpose I carried within me.

Then came a roadblock I never saw coming.

I was asked to submit my I-9 documents, and that's when I was told something that broke my heart: the role required a valid driver's license — something I didn't have. In fact, I didn't even know how to drive.

In that moment, I felt crushed. But something inside me refused to give up.

Determined not to let the opportunity slip away, I made up my mind to get a driver's license. It wasn't easy. In September 2024, I passed the BMV written test and received my learner's permit. I didn't have anyone to teach me at first, but God sent help through a kind sister from my church. She offered to teach me — but went even further. She paid in full for me to enroll in a professional driving academy. It was expensive, and I'll never forget her sacrifice. May God always remember her and bless her and her family.

Even after finishing the academy, I still struggled. I had no access to a car, which meant I couldn't practice often. I felt stuck again.

One day, during another round of job hunting, I took the bus and walked from place to place, looking for anything available. I eventually got a job at the Walmart Deli Department, just a 7-minute walk from my apartment.

That same day, something unexpected caught my eye — a big roadside billboard that read: "Indiana School of Certified Nursing Assistants." 

I remembered the encouragement I had received from Mrs. Elizabeth, a kind woman I met at the ANAC conference in Indianapolis. That entire opportunity had been made possible through The Well Project, who helped me with registration and linkage. She reminded me of something I held close:

"Start small — because you have a big dream. You want to become a nurse."

Inspired by her words, I walked into the school to ask what it would take to enroll. I found a way to pay, signed up, and began the program.

 

It's about reclaiming purpose, embracing personal growth, and learning to see setbacks as setups for something greater.

 

For someone who had once dropped out of high school, this was a mountain to climb. But I was determined. I studied hard and stayed committed. And to my own surprise, I began to see just how much strength, resilience, and purpose I carried within me.

Throughout this journey, The Well Project continued to be a powerful source of encouragement. Their support gave me strength, confidence, and the courage to keep going — especially when I felt overwhelmed or alone.

In March 2025, I passed both the school and state exams and officially became a Certified Nursing Assistant. And in April, I began working as a Nurse Aide. What once felt like rejection in October 2024 turned out to be redirection toward something even more meaningful.

My journey isn't just about employment. It's about reclaiming purpose, embracing personal growth, and learning to see setbacks as setups for something greater.

I now stand as a CNA — proud, prepared, and positioned to care for others with compassion and strength.

To anyone who feels stuck, lost, or overlooked: Keep going. Your breakthrough might just be one bold step away.

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Submitted by JustineDD
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Thank you for sharing your story. I know rejection can be painful while you are going through the process not knowing there is something greater on the other side. I am happy you made it through to something you are passionate about and brings you joy. Congratulations!!!

Submitted by Ci Ci
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OMG, congratulations sister! I am so sorry to hear that you have been going through so much and all of the barriers that you have overcome. I am so proud of you and proud to know you. I'm almost jealous that your patients get to see that smile everyday. I just know that you are a wonderful soon-to-be nurse!!! 

Submitted by Cupcake80
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Wow… your story touched me deeply. 🌹 The way you turned what felt like a closed door into a greater calling is so powerful. I relate so much to that feeling of being crushed by circumstances outside of your control, but then realizing it was really a setup for something bigger.

Your resilience, faith, and determination shine through every word. 💫 The way your community — from your church sister to The Well Project — showed up for you proves how divine connections can shift our whole path.

Congratulations on becoming a CNA! 🎉 That is such a beautiful achievement, and I know the people you care for will be blessed by both your skill and your compassion.

Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s a reminder that setbacks don’t define us — how we rise from them does. ✨

In solidarity & celebration,

CupCake 🦋💜

 

Submitted by Marcya Gullatte
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Wow, way to go. I love that you found a job that was meaningful to you. Then you lost it, but you didn't give up. You learned how to drive. I love that you pushed further and found your purpose.Your story is quite inspiring. Thank you for sharing it.

Marcya

 

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