What are the MOST IMPORTANT things in a relationship to you?
My only requirement would be UNCONDITIONAL love, that is so hard to find nowadays. I see lot of marriage and relationship breaking due to the lack of such love. When one loves a person "unconditionally", he/she goes out of his/her way to love the person EVEN THE MORE without any "expectations". Such love is never based on a terms of Give and Take. When I am sick, I would NOT expect my husband to sit at my side n tend/care for me, BUT then a person is "DUTY BOUND" to look after a sick wife. This is LOVE. You don't ask but still you receive. A good real life example is my ex-boyfriend. I had my future with him. I had dreamt of a family, home, marriage until one fine day my bubble burst! Someone in his circle had strictly objected to marriage and since he was very devoted to his parents, he gave up the idea of marrying me BUT not the friendship. Though our relationship as a couple is no more, we are steadfast friends and he still continues to help me emotionally, financially, spiritually and mentally. I am happy and content. Though my dreams were shattered, that I still have him by my side was more than enough. And thats called UNCONDITIONAL love! No Give and Take. No Expectations. Just loving a person purely from the heart and soul, not from mind and body. So go ahead, make friends, and fall in love with people all over again, not just to one “certain” person. Don’t take life and people for granted. Learn the “art of giving” without expecting. It brings so much joy and also touches the person’s heart to the core. See Mother Teresa. See Princess Diana. They had so much sufferings yet they endured. Their life too has not been an easy one but they are “remembered” and made name in history because of their love. Love is a powerful tool. Only an “expectation” is the destroyer! Live. Love. Learn!!!
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