Unfolding a Stronger Version

Submitted on Mar 30, 2026 by Aunty Lou's House

A Girl Like Me blogger Louise Vallace speaking to a group of people at an event.

Photo by Daniaal Khalid; courtesy of author

I was invited to an event in London - to talk about how to tap into the energy that 2026 brings. This was my dream event - I was surrounded by young professional and creative people from London.

They did not know what to expect from my talk. I spoke about living with HIV, working in hostile environments, neurodiversity, shame, fear, love and hope. The room was silent, they were stunned. I ended the talk with some dancing and movement which was so much fun!

Photo by Daniaal Khalid; courtesy of author

Sometimes, when I am alone, I ask myself a question: Why am I so public and open about living with HIV? The response is - when I was in my darkest days, I wish I saw someone like me talking about how difficult life can be. Maybe I would feel less lonely, and more empowered to reach out and find community.

When I decided to speak about living with HIV, I typed in "HIV and women" in Google, and The Well Project popped up into my search. I started to write blogs for A Girl Like Me - and I am now co-chair of the community advisory board. Since then, I have not turned back. I feel so much stronger, safe and empowered for being part of a women-led HIV community.

Collage of A Girl Like Me blogger Louise Vallace speaking to a group of people at an event.

Photos by Daniaal Khalid (IG: @dk__photos95); courtesy of author

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Submitted by Red40something • 1 month ago

We love that you are here! I for one appreciate every woman that steps out on that limb and allows other women to see the pieces of themselves that are quiet and secret reflected in others-- so thank you for your part friend!